10 SIGNS YOU'RE DATING A PSYCHOPATH
Is your man a psychopath? You may think your man can never be one of those, but think again. Psychopaths come across as extremely charming people. So unless you know the true signs of a psychopath, you may never know who you’re actually dating. Here are 10 signs which define common psychopath traits.
1) Flattering: Psychopaths can flatter you like no one else. For example, on the first date, they will complement you on your wittiness, looks, etc. They will “love bomb” you for many months or years, until they shut it off and you are left wanting it all your life.
2) He is your soul mate: A psychopath will try to convince you that he is just like you. He will say he likes all the things which you do. He tries to become your “mirror”. This is because he does not have a separate identity of his own.
3) Begs pity: Pay attention to what he has been complaining about since the first date. Is his mother ruthless? Is his ex girlfriend stalking him? Do people always use and abuse him? This may be what he does to people.
4) Illnesses: Psychopaths love pity and may report several injuries. Did he lose his first wife to a car accident which led him to mental trauma (and yet he seems to be talking just fine)? Check with the hospitals for his stories. But don’t be surprised if it was untrue.
5) Best sex ever: Those who have been with a psychopath, often report that it is the best they have ever got. This is because a psychopath will go to any lengths to be in your good books but once you are hooked, they stop giving it.
6) Mask starts to fade: You may catch the psychopath blurting something abnormal about him at times. Like you may be in the kitchen while he mumbles from behind you “I have been cheating on you”. Then he will dodge it by saying it was a joke, or by denying it completely.
7) The silent treatment: Once the psychopaths realize that you have been hooked, they start to devalue you. They do this by giving you the silent treatment. Of course at the end of the day, they will hold you responsible for such behavior.
8) Threesome game: After the silent treatment, they start to introduce you to people such as his ex girlfriend or their ex wife, a person who will potentially be a competition to you. Psychopaths love to create jealousy.
9) Abandon: During this phase he starts neglecting you to such extent that you may feel that the relationship never happened. You will start to feel rejected.
10) Back trace: This is where the psychopath shows his true traits. Although he makes you feel discarded, he does not want you moving on. If he senses that you are done with his tactics, he will make a back trace and again bombard you with pleas to stay with him.
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